Police: In Florida girl’s slaying, generous offer led to deadly crime
This is probably one of the most heart-breaking stories I have ever read. Can you imagine being this little girls parent? She will forever live with the guilt that her daughters death was preventable, had she only have kept her daughter close to her instead of trusting a stranger.
Women, please pay attention . . . Strangers do not just offer to give anything without an ulterior motive. (There are those that may choose to argue this point with me, and while there is of course the exception, you and your children cannot afford the risk.) Even those you may know that offer easily to give you anything, probably seek something in return for their generosity. Please always keep in mind, there is no such thing as a free ride. No man, and probably 50% of the women you meet are out for whatever they can get by placing you in their debt. SO DO NOT DO IT! No matter how great the need, no matter how great the gift, ask yourself what it will really cost you. And, the only guarantee you can count on, is the guarantee that whatever you received is not for free.
Men are pigs! And, women are some of the most vile creatures on the planet. Until you have progressed through at least a short term relationship with either, decline offers of money or gifts. Really. Everything you do that leads your suitor to believe you are indebted to him/her feeds their belief that whatever they do regardless it be sexual or violent, that you owed them. Ask any down on their luck person, how many sharks circled them waiting for the opportunity to strike. And it really matters not if you are pretty, ugly, young, old, man, or woman . . . There is someone watching and waiting for your moment of weakness for them to slide up next to you and be your knight in shining armor, and find a way to take advantage of you one way or another.
I grew up with manners that required that as a gentleman you held the door for a lady, helped a lady that had a load that she needs help with, and come to the aid of those in need. I still do all of these things, but not for only women because I do consider myself a gentleman. But, immediately upon doing my gentleman’s duty I separate myself from the situation as a gentlemen should. Those that extend that gentlemanly conduct but stay longer than necessary, are not being gentlemen. Distance yourself immediately!
There is never a need to place yourself or your loved ones in danger by allowing your family members to become separated by a stranger. Do not let it happen. Believe me, any real “Do-Gooder” will see that his/her actions are making you uncomfortable and understand any objections you have. Do not let them make light of your reservations and always remember someone making such, is not the “Do-Gooder” they claim to be.
When I was growing up, there were dangers even for young men that were able to take care of themselves. The world has changed. There no longer is anyone that is not threatened by the animals in our society. Protect yourselves, your loved one’s, and even a stranger if you have the ability. But, never trust anyone that offers you something for nothing. Because, there is no such thing as something for nothing.